Why Self Defense is so important

Although no one can guarantee that you will not be a victim of rape, there are precautions you can take to significantly reduce the odds of this happening to you. But first, check out these jaw dropping statistics from research done by Kansas State University:

  • 84% of women who are raped know their perpetrator.
  • 57% of all rapes occur while on a date.
  • 84% of male students who had committed acts that clearly met the legal definition of rape said what they had done was definitely not rape.
  • 75% of male and 55% of female students in an occurrence of date rape had been drinking or using drugs.
  • 25% of men surveyed believed that rape was acceptable if: the women asks the man out; if the man pays for the date, or the woman goes back to the man’s room after the date.
  • 50% of high school boys and 42% of girls said there were times it was acceptable for a male to hold a female down and physically force her to engage in intercourse.

why choose heads up!

HEADS UP! is the first to tackle the subject of casual or acquaintance sexual assault. We teach girls what it is, what it looks like, and how to stop it! Casual or acquaintance sexual assault is no longer behavior girls must simply accept as the way things are. We have developed ways for girls and women to neutralize these encounters and stop this behavior in its tracks and at the same time send a powerful message to the other person that says never again! Because these encounters usually occur at family events or other types of social gatherings, you’ll learn how to take control of these situations in a gracious way, without causing a scene. In effect, it is between you and the other person, unless you choose otherwise. It is up to you!